Self-Help for PE: 7 Simple & Practical Techniques

早泄(PE)困扰着许多男性,但好消息是:​75%以上轻度至中度患者通过科学自疗可显著改善​!本文提供 ​7个安全、易操作的自疗技巧,无需立即求医或药物,在家就能实践。

Premature Ejaculation (PE) affects many men, but good news: ​Over 75% with mild to moderate cases see significant improvement through self-help!​​ Here are ​7 safe, practical techniques​ you can practice at home without immediate medication.

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方法1:掌握「停-动法」训练射精控制力

Technique 1: Master the Start-Stop Method

适用场景:​​ 自慰或性交时
步骤:​

  1. 刺激阴茎至 ​70-80%兴奋度​(感觉即将射精前);
  2. 立即停止所有刺激,深呼吸等待 ​30秒
  3. 冲动消退后继续刺激,重复 ​3-5次​ 再允许射精。
    效果:​​ 4-6周后平均延长时间 ​2倍以上

When to use:​​ During masturbation/sex
Steps:​

  1. Stimulate until ​70-80% aroused​ (just before climax);
  2. Stop all stimulation, breathe deeply for ​30 seconds;
  3. Resume after urge fades. Repeat ​3-5 times​ before ejaculating.
    Result:​​ 2x+ longer after 4-6 weeks.

方法2:每日凯格尔运动(强化盆底肌)​

Technique 2: Daily Kegel Exercises

为什么有效?​​ 盆底肌虚弱是早泄主因之一!
正确练法(坐/躺均可):​

  • 收缩肛门和尿道肌肉(像 ​同时憋尿+憋屁);
  • 保持紧绷 ​5秒 → 彻底放松 5秒
  • 每天3组,每组10次​(如刷牙时练习)。
    ✅ 小技巧:用手机APP(如Kegel Trainer)提醒练习。

Why it works:​​ Weak pelvic muscles contribute to PE!
How to (sitting/lying):​

  • Contract muscles around anus & urethra (hold urine + gas);
  • Squeeze ​5 sec → Fully relax 5 sec;
  • 3 sets/day, 10 reps/set​ (e.g., while brushing teeth).
    ✅ Tip: Use apps (e.g., Kegel Trainer) for reminders.

方法3:降低敏感度的「冷热交替法」​

Technique 3: Desensitize with Warm-Cold Therapy

适用:​​ 龟头过度敏感者
操作:​

  1. 洗澡时用 ​温水冲洗阴茎1分钟
  2. 切换 ​凉水冲洗30秒​(非冰水!);
  3. 重复交替 ​3-5轮,结束用毛巾轻擦干。
    ⚠️ 注意:糖尿病患者慎用!

For:​​ Overly sensitive glans
Steps:​

  1. Shower with ​warm water over penis for 1 min;
  2. Switch to ​cool water for 30 sec​ (not icy!);
  3. Repeat ​3-5 cycles, pat dry gently.
    ⚠️ Caution: Not for diabetics!

方法4:深呼吸放松法(对抗焦虑)​

Technique 4: Deep Breathing for Anxiety Control

性爱前/中这样做:​

  • 用 ​鼻子缓慢吸气4秒​(腹部鼓起);
  • 屏住呼吸2秒
  • 嘴巴缓缓吐气6秒​(腹部收缩);
  • 重复 ​5次​ 可降低兴奋度。
    🌟 马来西亚草药辅助:饮用 ​卡琪花蒂玛茶​(Kacip Fatimah)帮助放松。

Do this before/during sex:​

  • Inhale slowly through nose for 4 sec​ (belly expands);
  • Hold breath 2 sec;
  • Exhale slowly through mouth for 6 sec​ (belly contracts);
  • Repeat ​5 times​ to reduce arousal.
    🌟 Malaysian herb tip: Drink ​Kacip Fatimah tea​ for relaxation.

方法5:选用延时安全套/润滑剂

Technique 5: Use Delay Condoms/Lubes

马来西亚药房推荐产品:​

  • Durex Performa(含苯佐卡因延时成分)
  • Eros Delay Spray(可涂于安全套内)
  • 水性延时润滑剂(如Pjur Med Repair)
    ✅ 用法:性交前 ​5分钟​ 涂抹或佩戴,避免麻木感过强。

Recommended in Malaysia pharmacies:​

  • Durex Performa (benzocaine-based)
  • Eros Delay Spray (apply inside condom)
  • Water-based delay lube (e.g., Pjur Med Repair)
    ✅ Apply/wear ​5 mins before sex​ to avoid over-numbing.

方法6:自慰再训练(重置敏感度)​

Technique 6: Masturbation Retraining

关键原则:​​ 改变”快速达到高潮”的习惯
练习步骤:​

  1. 自慰时使用 ​充足润滑剂​(减少摩擦刺激);
  2. 刻意 ​放慢速度,专注全身触感而非生殖器;
  3. 每次练习 ​至少持续10-15分钟​ 才允许射精。

Core principle:​​ Break the “rush to climax” habit
Steps:​

  1. Use ​generous lube​ (reduce friction);
  2. Slow down deliberately, focus on body sensations;
  3. Practice ​10-15 mins minimum​ before ejaculating.

方法7:生姜水坐浴(传统疗法)​

Technique 7: Ginger Sitz Bath (Traditional Remedy)​

马来西亚民间验方(辅助作用):​

  • 取 ​50g生姜切片​ 煮沸10分钟;
  • 加冷水调至 ​温热(约40°C)​,倒入盆中;
  • 坐浴浸泡 ​会阴部10分钟,每周3次。
    🌿 原理:促进盆腔血液循环(科学证据有限但安全)。

Malaysian folk remedy (supportive):​

  • Boil ​50g sliced ginger for 10 mins;
  • Dilute to ​warm temperature (~40°C)​;
  • Soak ​perineum for 10 mins, 3x/week.
    🌿 Mechanism: Improves pelvic blood flow (limited evidence but safe).

重要提醒(给马来西亚读者)​

Key Notes for Malaysian Readers

  1. 避免危险偏方!​
    ✖️ 切勿用辣椒/风油精涂抹阴茎 – 可能灼伤组织!
    ✖️ 勿滥用”强精丸” – 恐含非法西药成分。
  2. 何时该看医生?​
    → 自疗 ​3个月无改善
    → 射精时间 ​始终短于1分钟
    → 伴随勃起困难或疼痛
  3. 心理健康支持:​
    可拨打 ​马来西亚心理援助热线(03-7931 4714)​
  4. Avoid dangerous remedies!​
    ✖️ Never apply chili/oil on penis – may cause burns!
    ✖️ Don’t misuse unregistered “tonics” – may contain drugs.
  5. When to see a doctor?​
    → No improvement after ​3 months
    → Ejaculation ​always under 1 minute
    → With erectile dysfunction/pain
  6. Mental health support:​
    Call ​Malaysia Mental Health Helpline (03-7931 4714)​

坚持练习4-8周,多数人可见效!如需要专业指导,可咨询 ​马来西亚卫生部性健康诊所(Klinik Kesihatan)​
Most see results after ​4-8 weeks​! Find help at ​MOH Sexual Health Clinics​ if needed.